Wedding Decoration Tips: Creating Ambience

So you're getting married. Congratulations!

You want to create a memorable and beautiful wedding experience for you, your fiance and your guests...something they'll remember for all time and look back on fondly.

You've done all the work necessary to look gorgeous in your dress, from sitting on an exercise ball chair at work every day to eating a healthy diet full of fresh veggies and plenty of fresh water. Your skin is glowing, your hair and nails are ready to go, and now all you need is a little ambience (and maybe a tiny heart tattoo to commemorate the occasion).

Some wedding decoration tips to help make your special occasion extra special include:

Sweet touches: From a harpist gently playing as your guests arrive to providing the little ones with bubbles to blow, you can create sweet little moments to make the day and evening feel magical. Spray sparkles on the greenery, rig gauzy materials to softly blow in the breeze, add fishbowls in beautiful Japanese urns...it's just a matter of getting creative. Think back to what gave you that feeling of magic when you were a kid, and try to recreate a little of that feeling for your guests, without, of course, getting said guests dirty or inconveniencing them. Have tutu skirts or tiaras for the little girls, for instance, and place thoughtful things like extra wipes, hand lotion, scented creams, brush and hairspray, etc. in the ladies' room. Everyone loves little sample-sized things, so include tiny mouthwashes and even little sparkly glosses as bathroom niceties. A little basket of goodies will go a long way toward making your lady guests gush! Another nice touch is to have a spot for kids to fall asleep safely later in the evening, so your adult guests can have some time to themselves. A little corner with sleeping pads and blankets should do the trick, and we all know that sometimes, all it takes to feel magic is to be able to dance and enjoy a little while the kids are safely sleeping!

Lighting: beautiful things can be done with the right lighting. the difference between soft, subtle, hidden or twinkling lighting and a glaring ceiling flourescent light at a wedding is enormous. Since most banquet halls and other such places have the latter, you might have to get a little creative. Of course, if they have a chandelier or two on a dimmer, by all means start with that. Then, your creative touch comes into play: scatter a few tiny sidetables around the edges of the room with lamps on them to add some warm, unfocused light; add hurricane lamps or hurricane lamp candle holders to your centerpieces or on side tables (candle light is a stunningand simple way to create ambience...if you're worried about safety you can always use flameless candles); string tiny fairy lights around plants, through greenery, from gauze draped from corner to corner on the ceiling; string little lanterns above the crowd or have Moroccan or Mexican lanterns in groupings...the light which plays out of these cut-metal lanterns is absolutely stunning. This is especially effective if you have an exotic wedding theme. For an adults-only wedding reception (for safety reasons), place an elegant firepit table with a few chairs at the entrance or out on a patio (see photo), so people can lounge outside and still enjoy the magical feeling.

No matter how you do it, your wedding is sure to be beautiful, if for the only reason that it is a celebration of love and joy. Enjoy your special day, and Happy Wedding Planning!

Four Ways to Make Your Wedding Extra-Special

If you think your guests may be tired of run-of-the-mill weddings, eg. many of your friends have gotten married in the past couple of years and all the weddings seem to be blending into one...then mix things up a little and make your wedding a unique affair to remember. Whether you do this by having especially memorable decor or a unique venue, or by making an impact on the future as in point 4, the possibilities are endless, so get creative!

Location: Instead of a banquet hall or other dressed-up meeting room, try something out of the ordinary. We've seen wedding receptions at some gorgeous places: for a local wedding, try an art gallery, a heritage building, an airplane hangar, an indoor amusement park, or any other unusual but large indoor space that suits your style. For a destination wedding look for something both exotic and affordable; from North America this typically means the Caribbean, but can also can include Hawaii and Europe, for instance. TIP: Check out the Honeymoon in Hawaii section at our Travel site!

Decoration: One special way to create memorable ambience is to have a theme running through your decor. From cultural wedding themes - eg. Asian, Mexican - to seasons or anything the two of you love, this can be a personalized way to celebrate. Choose extra lighting to add a sense of style, (eg. light outdoor pathways with hurricane lanterns), think about what you love and wedding theme ideas can be as creative as you want them to be!

Eco-Friendly: Make a statement that you hope will be followed by your guests and have an eco-friendly wedding! Buy a dress spun from soft renewable bamboo fibers, arrive in a hybrid vehicle, give plants as wedding guest gifts, serve sustainable seafood with a story about it in the guest menu, offer vegetarian options, etc..

Wedding Gifts: Instead of registering for the standard good china and flatware, create a whole new style of wish list that will have a positive impact on the future of yourselves (and your children some day)! You could ask for exercise & fitness equipment to help you both get and stay in great shape, such as matching bicycles or gym memberships; you could ask for the money to enroll in finance or real estate investing courses to help you both get off on a good financial footing...there are many ideas here which your guests would likely be more than happy to spring for. You can even send thank you notes several years from now to the guests who contributed in this way, with a picture of your fit selves or your new rental home investment, letting them know that their gift had a positive long-term impact. Now that's memorable!